Dear Match Book

March 15, 2019 | 1 4 min read

In her New York Times column “Match Book,” Nicole Lamy “connects readers with book suggestions based on their questions, their tastes, their literary needs and desires.” Some of those questions, tastes, literary needs and desires are stranger than others.

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Dear Match Book,

I like sympathetic protagonists who become slightly, but not too, unsympathetic following some kind of loss, then gradually become sympathetic again while coping with said loss. Close third-person narration preferred, with some epistolary bits (email only) judiciously sprinkled in. No second person please! A strong sense of place is a must, though that place need not be named as long as the protagonist is—or vice versa.

Dear Anonymous,

My advice would be to write this book yourself, and then check back in after it’s published so l can recommend it to you.

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Dear Match Book,

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I love trilogies: Olivia Manning’s Fortunes of War, Evelyn Waugh’s Sword of Honour, and more recently, Rachel Cusk’s Outline trilogy. My problem is I can’t stand quartets! The very thought of four books in a series—or their readers—makes me physically ill. And yet I’ve heard great things about Elena Ferrante’s Neapolitan Quartet. Help!

Dear Fourth Wheel,

I am terribly sorry to hear about your tetralogical dysfunction, which is barring you off from experiencing the wonders of Ferrante’s Naples and Lawrence Durrell’s Alexandria. Has your therapist already suggested breaking the foursomes into two twosomes? (You do have a therapist, right?)

Alternatively, you could try wetting your feet with books with “four” in the title (e.g., Ian Caldwell and Dustin Thomason’s bibliophile mystery The Rule of Four)? I don’t know. I’m grasping at straws here.

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What about Ali Smith’s in-progress Seasonal Quartet? Why don’t you read Winter, Autumn, and the forthcoming Spring, and then pretend that Smith got tired of the project? Next, hole up in a cabin somewhere. After 10 to 15 years, emerge from seclusion, visit a bookstore, and thumb through a copy of Summer. If you don’t retch, you’re cured!  

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Dear Match Book,

You up?

Dear Romeo,

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Is this a booty call? If so, this is a first for me at Match Book. I am indeed up, but I’d prefer to keep this professional. I can, however, recommend some saucy books to get you through the night. Philip Roth’s Deception and Nicolson’s Baker’s Vox each are dazzling verbal displays that plumb the depths of desire.

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Dear Match Book,

I earn $400 a day working from home! Want to learn more? But first, do you have any well-observed family dramas to recommend? I loved the latest Ann Tyler.

Dear Bot,

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Domestic drama has been at the core of literature since Greek tragedy, so there is much to choose from. What about the Eca de Queiros’s 19th-century epic The Maias, which tells of forbidden love in a lively Lisbon? Or for something more contemporary, try Barbara Kingsolver’s Unsheltered, her era-spanning chronicle of two New Jersey families.

I could think of more, but I’m intrigued by your offer. $400 a day you say? Would I still have to write this column? Please advise.

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Dear Match Book,

A veritable and unrepentant gourmand, I’ve devoured Valerie Luiselli, inhaled Karl Ove Knaussgard, delected Ben Lerner and glutted on Ottessa Moshfegh in the last month alone. I really don’t need a recommendation. I was just writing to communicate how well read I am.

Dear Voracious Reader,

Barf.

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Dear Match Book,

Recommending books is simply a matter of data analysis. For example, with the right algorithm I could tell you which novel to read based on the kind of paper towels you buy.

Dear Bot Book,

You’ll never replace me with a machine, Bezos!

p.s. Sorry about Queens. And the dick pics.

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Dear Match Book,

I’m looking for the perfect bathroom read. It doesn’t necessarily have to be thematically related to defecation—though bonus points if it did—just gripping enough to get me through my morning ritual.

Dear Multitasker,

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I believe the best time to ingest knowledge is when one is expelling waste. The urbane musings of Joseph Epstein are my favorite companion, but perhaps it’s easiest to tell you what’s in our bathroom here at The Times: Clives James’s Cultural Amnesia, his sharp, sardonic portraits of 20th-century intellectual and artistic figures; Marcel Schwob’s Imaginary Lives, a toilet-friendly collection of mesmerizing biographical vignettes; and The Selected Poems of Kay Ryan, whose whimsical, technically proficient verse helps to move things along, so to speak.

There’s also The Penguin Book of Similes, but that’s in Dwight Garner’s personal stall.

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Dear Match Book,

I’ve always looked forward to reading the latest from Michael Chabon, whom I believe to be our greatest living author. This is an impossible question, but if you could choose just one masterpiece from his incredible oeuvre, what would it be?

Dear Michael Chabon,

As I tell you each week, I am particularly attached to The Yiddish Policeman’s Union.

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Dear Match Book,

We’ve been hosting a book club on the Victorian novel for several years now. Reading Daniel Deronda, Our Mutual Friend, and the Barchester novels has taught us the indispensability of timeless literature and great friends.

The problem is I can’t stand one member of the group—let’s call him Uriah. Can you recommend a “loose baggy monster” that will get him to quit the club?

Dear (Middle)Marching Orders,

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Part of what makes Victorian literature so compelling are its villains, from Alec d’Urberville to Becky Sharpe. Why don’t you try Wilkie Collins’s The Woman in White? Embrace your inner Count Fosco to lie, scheme, and gaslight the son of a bitch until the mere sight of a triple-decker sends shivers down his spine.

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Dear Match Book,

I recently murdered someone during an unfortunate encounter. I’m coping just about as well as could be expected and devoting myself to self-care, including reading literature about the ethics of killing a (former) friend. Any tips?

Dear Raskolnikov,

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N.B. The Times in no way condones murder. Having said that, reading is a great way to begin the healing process. I would start with Albert Camus’s haunting existentialist novel The Stranger. Another book to help you come to terms with your homicidal instincts is Fyodor Dostoyevsky’s Crime and Punishment. And finally, for a more recent novel to help you cope with brutally ending another life, try Oyinkan Brathwaite’s delightful satire My Sister, the Serial Killer.

If you don’t like these, don’t shoot the recommender! Please, don’t shoot me. I have a family and a lot of readers dependent on my help.

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Dear Match Book,

He was a world-renowned roller-coaster engineer, but he couldn’t control the precipitous decline of our marriage….

Dear Thrown for a Loop,

Let me stop you right there. I believe this is a “Modern Love” submission that was sent to me in error.

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is a staff writer for The Millions living in Durham, NC. Learn more about Matt at matthewseidel.com.